Becoming a Christian


Two thousand years ago this question was put to Peter – one of Jesus Christ’s closest friends and followers. Peter answer was: “Repent and be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ, so that your sins will be forgiven and you will receive God’s gift, the Holy Spirit.”

Without ever using the phrase“becoming a Christian” the Gospel of John records Jesus himself addressing this question many times over:

  • “The work that God requires is to believe in the One he sent (ie Jesus).” (John 6.29)
  • “What my father wants is that all who look to the Son (ie Jesus) and believe in him should have eternal life.” (John 6.40)
  • “This is eternal life that they may know you the only True God and Jesus the Messiah whom you sent.” (John 17.3)

So how to respond?

The Gospels don’t use our familiar language of being or a becoming a Christian. Instead they simply put out information about Jesus and then invite the hearer or reader to respond. Will you believe in Jesus and his teaching and set out to follow him, or not?

The language of the New Testament for those who decide “yes” is simply Believers.

People come to believe and set out on the journey of faith in all kinds of different ways. For some the experience of finding Jesus Christ for themselves is a very subtle and gradual thing. For others it can be sudden and dramatic. For me it was a bit of both!

But if you are asking how to begin the Christian life in a deliberate, intentional way, then let me offer a simple approach. It is one that helped me begin this journey thirty-seven years ago! Here is a simple A,B,C,D approach to beginning the Christian life. I hope you find it helpful.


A) Choose to ACCEPT & ACT on the words and teachings of Jesus Christ – recorded for us by his closest friends and followers in the Gospels and letters of the New Testament.

In an era of propaganda and fake news, more and more we have to think carefully about what sources of information to trust – be it Huffington Post, Al Jazeera, Fox News, SBS the BBC or CNN! Why trust the historic Gospels about Jesus?

When the New Testament writings were first gathered together as a group in the 100s A.D. the churches included only those writings which ALL the churches worldwide accepted had a close connection with Jesus’ Twelve Apostles – those whom Jesus had personally selected, trained authorized and sent to teach. Those criteria were chosen so that we can be confident that in the writings of the New Testament reside the closest written sources to the life and teaching of Jesus himself. That is why Christians relate to these writings as definitive of our faith.

As Jesus once said to his twelve disciples, “I chose you and appointed you…whoever receives anyone I send receives me also; and whoever receives me receives him who sent me.” (John 15.16, John 13.20) In other words, accepting the authority of the Apostolic teachings is the practical outworking of accepting the sender – ie Jesus.



Act on the Apostolic Teachings – ie what the New Testament teaches.

We don’t become transformed simply by changing our opinions! Transformation comes only as we allow the teachings of Jesus to begin to reshape our way of life, turning from former beliefs, behaviours and habits and always preferring Jesus’ teaching – as communicated through the New Testament.

Jesus’ brother James writes in his letter in the New Testament, “Do not deceive yourselves by just listening to his word; instead put it into practice!” (James 1.22)

Jesus said “Anyone who hears these words of mine and doesn’t put them into practice is like foolish man who built his house on sand. The rain poured down, the rivers flooded, the wind blew hard against that house and it fell. And what a terrible fall it was.”(Matthew 7.26)

Jesus said “Those who accept my commandments and obey them are the ones who love me. I too will love them and reveal myself to them” (John 14.21)
Jesus’ famous follower, the Apostle Paul, said, “Do not conform yourselves to the standards of this world but let God transform you inwardly by a complete change of your mind. Then you will be able to know the will of God – what is good and pleasing to him…” (Romans 12.2)
This holistic kind of change is what Peter meant when he used that word “repent” in the answer I quoted at the top of the page.
B) BE PUBLIC about your desire to follow the way of Jesus and BE BAPTIZED.
A private decision isn’t really a decision at all. Bring public about your intention holds you to your word and makes you accountable to your choice. That’s why, in the Gospels, Jesus tells us to be unembarrassed to speak about the trust we are putting in him. “Those who declare publicly that they belong to me I will do the same for them before my father in heaven.” (Matthew 10.32)

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The mutual recognition Jesus talked about is an important part of what happens in the rite of BAPTISM. It is a prophetic action declaring our intent to the world. It’s why the second part of Peter’s answer was “And be Baptized!”
Jesus himself taught his followers to “Go to all peoples everywhere and make them my disciples, baptizing them in the name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit and teach them to obey everything I commanded you.” (Matthew 28.18-20)
Find a follower of Jesus or a Pastor or Minister who is willing to baptize you. if at all possible do it in an environment to which you can invite significant friends and family in order to make it a public and prophetic action.


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C) COMMUNE WITH GOD Everyday find a quiet place to commune with God. That means take time to be alone and speak aloud with God. Enjoy whatever way the Spirit of God chooses to make his presence known to you. Ask Him questions and read a bit of the Bible. (Start with the Gospels and New Testament.) This communing is the life of prayer. It is sometimes called the “contemplative life”.

As you talk to God, thank Him for everything you can think of. Ask him confidently for the things you need. Ask him to pour his Holy Spirit into your heart and mind. Tell Jesus about your life and ask for wisdom to know what to do. Tell Jesus that you want to know Him for yourself and have Him always in your life.

Jesus said “It is the asking one who receives.” (Matthew 7.8)


“Bad as you are you know how to give good gifts to your children. How much more then will the Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him” (Luke 11.13)

“If anyone lacks wisdom he should ask God…” (James 1.5)

All this can feel strange and silly at first and it can feel like you are talking to the wall. It may be hard to believe that the Creator of the Universe can actually hear you as you speak. But persist, and note in a journal anything you believe maybe God’s replies and responses to your questions and concerns. When some time later you look back on your notes it is easier to spot the thoughts that were simply your own thinking and the thoughts that were inspired by the Spirit of God. (Jesus teaches a pattern for prayer in Matthew 6.5-14 and Luke 11.1-13.)

Enjoy seeing God respond to your prayers sending answers through other people, through revealing things to you through his Bible and in all sorts of amazing ways. Like the Psalmist says,“Taste and see that the Lord is good!” (Psalm 34.8)

 others who are as sincere as you are about knowing Jesus more genuinely and allowing God to transform you and lead your life. 

Find people who you click with and who are willing to befriend you and encourage you in your journey of faith (without dominating you.) Jesus’ teachings are not meant to be followed by lone individuals but by groups of people. (The New Testament word “church” simply means “group”.)

You may find such a group in a traditional church building or you may find one in a home. The setting is not important. Finding people you click with and who want to get to follow Jesus just as you do; that’s the thing. “Let us be concerned for one another to help one another to show love and to do good. Let us not give up the habit of meeting together…instead let us encourage one another…” (Hebrews 10.24-25)

Read Romans 12.9-13 and Acts 2.44-47 for a picture of what Christian group-life can be like.

If you are embarking on this journey of faith for the first time, please let me know via I would love to encourage you, pray for you personally and send you some resources to encourage you on your way. May God Bless You richly and lead you always. Amen.